Wedding Ceremony Basics
When we meet, I will show you a copy of a wedding ceremony that you can use as a starting point to design your wedding ceremony. Many couples use my ceremony as it is; some choose to make changes or additions to it.
Based on my many years as a wedding officiant, I believe that my ceremony speaks to many couples who come to me. The ceremony is my prayer for the couple. It is what I want for you. Typically, the only difference between a civil, religious, or spiritual wedding ceremony is the inclusion or exclusion of the parts listed below and the wording of each part used. Whether you choose to include all parts, or just a few, I pace the ceremony to last about 30 minutes.
Basic Parts of a Wedding Ceremony
- The Presenting of the Couple (Often by their Families)
- Opening Words
- Words of Welcome
- Prayer
- Words on Love or Marriage
- The Hand Ceremony, which beautifully speaks about aspects of your commitment and your newly formed family
- The Giving of Your Word
- Vows
- Support from Family and Friends
- The Exchange of Rings
- Wedding Blessing
- Pronouncement of Marriage
- Benediction
- And now, Ladies and Gentlemen, may I present to you for the first time...
Optional Inclusions
- Roses to Mothers
- Unity Candle
- Readings, either Religious or Secular
- Music/Songs
- Breaking of the Glass
- Jumping the Broom
- Children Ceremony - I believe that when people with children marry, they are making a commitment not only to
each other but also to the children. If either of you has children, this part of the ceremony acknowledges those children as part of your union - your family.
Whatever you choose for your wedding ceremony, I believe that what is most important is that it is the expression of your love for – and commitment to – one another.
Dear Rev. Larry Goyda -
Thank you so much for helping us make our day special. Your presence made us feel as if we have known you forever. You are the best!
- Love, Dave & Kristen Harton
Feel free to contact me with any questions or to set up a meeting. You can reach me through my contact form, by emailing larry@meaningfulmarriages.com, or by calling 412-271-7464.
